Our last week in Dar felt a bit like an attempt to test the limits of time and space. Saying good-bye to everyone and visiting all of our favourite places was going to be busy enough. And then for I needed to make arrangement for my return in January. We crammed it all in right up to the final hours, where we celebrating with my Executive Director at her kitchen party.
What's a kitchen party? Its a bridal-shower like you've never seen it before. No games and a few presents in someone's living-room, this is an event almost as big as the wedding itself, involving all of the women in the bride's life. I went to a couple kitchen parties in Zambia but this was my first Tanzanian occasion and it was a lot fancier than I've previously seen. Everyone who attends contributes to support the expenses of the party and to buy the bride gifts.
The entire party was hosted by a matron who lead the party in welcoming the bride to the world of marriage and gave her advice on how to be a good wife. This, of course, was mixed in with a lot of dancing!
In the chaos of organizing ourselves to go home, it was a really special way to spend our last night in Tanzania. Its hard to believe that this six months is coming to an end. Even though I'm coming back, it will be different. I'll miss the great group that we had. Nikupenda sana!
Sunday 22 December 2013
Thursday 5 December 2013
I Think This is the Start of a Beautiful Friendship
I have been struggling about how to write the post for the end of my stay in Dar es Salaam. But it looks like I've managed to escape this task because I'M COMING BACK IN JANUARY!
Last minute, I've managed to pull
together more work for another 3 months, so I will be swinging
through London and Canada before heading back to Tanzania in January.
The next few months going to be a bit different because
I will be coming back on my own but I'm really excited to be able to
continue to working with Equality for Growth. Its going to be an busy
three months as we work to get the new strategic plan under way.
So I now have a weekend of “see you
later,” instead of “good-bye” though I will still be saying tearful good-byes (and this is a literal prediction) to my fellow interns. Next posting will be from the Northern Hemisphere!
Tuesday 3 December 2013
Legally Empowered
There is a quote on the bulletin board
in our office which says “In the absence of good structures, even
good people behave badly.” This quote rings very true in a lot of
the work that we do, but there is another piece to this equation that
has also become very clear to me- Good
structures are only helpful when people are aware of them and know
how to navigate them.
This is exactly the challenge women
market trader's face in their lives. Bureaucracy is confusing to most
of us, but with low levels of education, no access to information and
no one to guide you through the process, its a nightmare. Imagine if
you had no idea how to get a piece of ID, why you needed a marriage
certificate or what a contract was, and nobody else around you had any
clue either. This lack of legal knowledge leaves women vulnerable to
everything from fake marriages and abuse to property grabbing and
business scams.
Which is why Equality for Growth is
launching a legal aid program for market women. The project official launched this fall at a big opening ceremony. Over the next year,
25 women and men who work in and around the markets will attend
training sessions to become paralegals. These paralegals will be
able to help women with basic legal advice, mediate disputes and
guide them through the legal system.
What is incredible is that these women
and men are all volunteers. There is no funding to pay paralegals for
their work and they offer their services for free. Most of them will
be juggling their own business at the same time. For most people who
work a full-time job, volunteering one afternoon a week can be a
struggle. These people will likely see 3-5 clients a week. Its an impressive commitment.
At the first training session, the
paralegals to-be biggest worry was that they wouldn't be able to
understand enough of law and legal practice to offer advice. This has rapidly changed.
The second training session ended just last week and the groups was
confident enough to tell the trainers they wanted the last few hours
of the training so they could plan as a group to set up their work in
the markets. In the course of a couple months they've gone from
hesitant to full-throttle.
Its a neat aspect of the project, that
as much as the women will benefit from the legal aid, those trained
also really benefit from the sense of confidence and community they
get from being part of the paralegal team. I think it will be
exciting to see, not just the help the new paralegals will provide but also how
this experience will also ripple through their own lives and what else it
might empower them to do.